Everything you Need to Know About Body Language and the Differences Between the Sexes
You know all that fascinating information you’ve read about how when a woman’s eyes dilate it means she’s interested, or if a guy points his hands towards his crotch it means he’s confident of his sexuality?
It all comes from THE authorities of body language and seduction science, Barbara and Allan Pease.
Haven’t heard of the Peases? Don’t know what they can do for you?
Well then, it’s about time you find out!
These two experts have the information you need to become more knowledgeable, more confident, and more attractive to the opposite sex! Best of all, you won’t have to spend more than the price of a movie ticket to get some of their priceless information.
Barbara and Allan Pease are the authors of The Definitive Guide to Body Language and the global best-seller, Why Men Don’t Listen, and Women Can’t Read Maps. With their books, you learn, like myself and so many others, why understanding body language signals and the the evolutionary and biological differences between sexes, is not just helpful, but NECESSARY toward attraction.
For example, in Allan Pease’s Body Language, the original guide to understanding nonverbal communication signals, you learn that over 90% of communication is done nonverbally! And not just in attraction, but in everyday life: in social occasions, business, law, even sports: you literally can read your opponent’s thoughts by noticing their facial and body movements!
Even more importantly, as a single man or woman, you need to know what your “target” is thinking. You need to understand the cues and signals a man or woman make, and how to use this to your advantage. Is twisting her hair a good thing or a bad thing? When she’s too shy to meet your eyes, what does this say? When she fondles her glass or cigarette, what’s the next step you should take?
By understanding body language, BIG THINGS can happen!
Likewise, understanding the scientific differences between the sexes is not just interesting, but CRUCIAL. In their books Why Men Don’t Listen and Women Can’t Read Maps, and Why Men Don’t Have a Clue and Women Always Need More Shoes, you learn how evolutionary and biological differences make men and women the way they are.
You also learn what you NEED to understand about men in women, in order to attract them: how understanding that women are more emotional creatures, can help you sustain a relationship, or how understanding that men need some “alone time” to think about problems, can prevent arguments. You also learn specific attraction-builders, such as status and posture, and how to implement them.
All this can be learned in the excellentWhy Men Don’t Listen, and Women Can’t Read Maps.
But for more information on body language, whether for approaching your target of interest or learning how to communicate better, I HIGHLY suggest you check out The Definitive Guide to Body Language. It’s available on DVD, audio, and book versions. But the DVD version is definitely the best one if you want to see body movement and positioning principles put into action!
Whether you learn best through video, audio, or books, the Peases have something for everyone. Don’t waste any more time reading this. See what I mean for yourself and find out all the great information the Peases can do for your entire life–attraction, business, and social interaction–at their website, http://www.mybuyortry.com/barbara-and-allan-pease.
Believe me, you won’t regret it!
Ethan Parker
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Family Home Evening lesson- Family morals + daily life ?
Ok, I have seriously noticed that there are problems in my house. Both my parents work, they are stressed out, my teachers assign so much work I’m normally up until midnight doing it. My brothers are lazy and trash the house, don’t do their homework, argue about everything, don’t do chores and the way they talk is getting bad. I have tried talking to my parents about these things and they just don’t listen. My youngest brother is turning eight monday and is going to get baptized soon. I want to do a family home evening to see if it makes a difference. I hate the tension in the house and so far the entire family has been doing things just to upset the others. Breaking things, calling names, saying that all of us are one way because not everybody helped… like I do my chores and then my parents go off and say in front of all of us like we aren’t there how much of pigs we are including me and how we don’t really do our stuff. Currently in my house, there are two chores. One of my brothers feeds the dog. The other chore is dishes which alternates days between me and my brother. Other than that, the house is trashed always. Things get lost, everybody gets blamed and my mom gets even more stressed and embarrassed.
My family home evening plan is this:
One, I have little "ghosts" that you leave somewhere for somebody after you do something nice for them. Basically, you do a kind act for somebody anonymously and then leave the ghost there and they have to return the favor by passing it on to somebody else. I want to see if that will work or if they will just be thrown out.
Next, I have a huge list of things I want to talk about, and I don’t care how long this family home evening will take or if I have to split it up. I need some good sources and ideas for this:
Scripture reading- which we do not do at all
-Family reading
-Personal reading
Prayers
-family, supposed to be twice a day, don’t do at all
-personal, I dont know how many of us actually do say them
Language
-Up until I was 12, I was not allowed to say the words butt, stupid or moron. In our house, those were the soap words that would get you beaten with a belt.
– Now, my seven year old brother talks about sex, makes jokes about gay people, insults people, calls everybody names… they are verbal bully’s. They explain to my… self concious larger friends how big they are and make jokes at them. They constantly talk about killing people and think it is all funny. They make jokes about bodies and stuff like that. It is ridiculous.
TAKING CARE OF THE HOME
-Chores and distribution my parents will stick to… they don’t follow through with anything at all
-Schedules such as when homework is done (usually about 10 at night right now or not at all)
-I also want to see if we could start having family meals. We rarely do that when school is in, and I burn everything so it is rare. This would also help our budget because we go out to eat 3-5 times a week!
KEEPING THE SABBATH DAY HOLY
-We constantly clean the house on the sabbath, and act like it is a normal day except we do not contact our friends in person…
-I would like to find some fun clean family activities that we can do, normally we try to watch movies… but right now we are kind of short for appropriate ones.
-My dad tried to get us to start writing in our journals on sunday’s and that fell flat. I want to try again because it is fun to go back and it ensures that we do it
ATTITUDE
-I want to improve on attitude towards each other and stop yelling fighting and arguing
TIME CONTROL
-We shouldn’t ignore each other and go on the computers until everybody has contributed. I am the only one who does anything and I can’t keep the whole house clean.
Also, I want to find a way to convince my parents that the boys don’t listen to me. They do what I say when they get home, homework and chores… but when my parents are home or get home they give up, trash the house again and don’t listen because I am no longer in charge. And my parents don’t do squat about it.
Thnx
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When I babysit- my brothers don’t listen. When my parents come home, my brothers stop whatever they are doing because my parents wont enforce anything.
You sound like such a sweetheart. I love that you want to help your family out. My advice would be that you talk to your parents about all of this w/out your little brothers around. Then, your parents can gather the family and address all of these issues. This will help your brothers see that your parents are in charge and not you. Just remember that sticking to a schedule is not always the easiest thing to do. Try to remain positive and don’t get too frustrated. Pray about all of this. 🙂 I wish you the best.
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