Am I friend or girlfriend type?
I’m a 16 year old girl and I enjoy hobbies and activities most guys would enjoy such as: paintball, sports, action movies (american history x, black hawk down, fight club, saving private ryan), but I don’t dress like a guy. The usual attire is tank and jeans, but it seems that I mostly have guy friends. Should I embrace more girly hobbies that I don’t really enjoy or should I just wait till a guy comes around who likes that I enjoy more male activities that sees me more then a friend?
I think you’re very typical for girls your age. Embracing girly hobbies would create someone who isn’t you, and if guys don’t like you for who you are, they’re not worth your time.
The thing is, most guys HATE being roped into doing things their gfs like. If I met a girl who, say, liked to play video games/board games and watch horror movies, that would be great, and we’d hit it off immediately. Being yourself is what makes you you, and if you started doing things you dislike, you’d lose your sense of self.
Btw, I think your taste in movies is awesome.
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I think you’re very typical for girls your age. Embracing girly hobbies would create someone who isn’t you, and if guys don’t like you for who you are, they’re not worth your time.
The thing is, most guys HATE being roped into doing things their gfs like. If I met a girl who, say, liked to play video games/board games and watch horror movies, that would be great, and we’d hit it off immediately. Being yourself is what makes you you, and if you started doing things you dislike, you’d lose your sense of self.
Btw, I think your taste in movies is awesome.
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NEVER EVER EVER CHANGE WHAT YOU ARE TO BE SOMETHING YOUR NOT..SOONER OR LATER A GUY WILL WANT SOMEONE AS FUN AS U SOUND
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I don’t think you should change who you are to find the right guy. The right guy just always comes around and will like you for who you are and not for how "girly" you are. NEway why do something you don’t like than something you really love? Everyone is different and thats what makes everyone special in their own way.
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You are whatever you want to be, Dear. Don’t be anything you don’t like to "get" somebody. You’ll lose every time.
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Darlin’, don’t EVER change who you are just to attract a guy. You just keep doing what you’re doing and you’ll attract a guy who’s not intimidated by you but is excited by your daring and is attracted to who you really are.
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